In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.
You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the other guy that you were fucking treated you.
They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, "What happened to all the nice guys? Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were "just friends.
If you were five years younger.
At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive "just-a-" friend.
He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do: 1. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life.
You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't fucking want you, now. So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've fucked yourself over. And I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of "nice guys" in your Addult for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. You're getting older, after all.
I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a Bahxma guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy.
I see this question posted with some regularity in the personals section, so I thought I'd take wabts minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven't figured it out.
What happened to all the nice guys? Build a time machine.
You ignored the nice guy. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship.
Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious wantx spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating him. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he ever wanted to be.
The answer is simple: you did.
Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab ahold of it. See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that. It's time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality.
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